Topic: What should I do? Just found out I have a 4 year old son?
I'm 25 and I'm an Officer in the Air Force. Well when I was back in college I had a thing with this girl I was seeing. One night we both had a little too much to drink and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. A few weeks later she disappeared and I didn't hear from her again. I tried everything to get hold of her, but no luck.
Now, fast forward nearly 5 years later and she shows up again after somehow tracking me down. Come to find out I got her pregnant that night. I have a 4 year old son named Caleb that I never knew until recently existed. We had a DNA test done and I am definitely his dad. I am so upset I've missed the last 4 years of my boys life. I don't want to miss anything else and I want him to be proud of being my boy. It's just my current girlfriend is threatening to leave me if I have anything to do with him. She is mad as all Hell about this.